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Caught Masturbating? What to Do and How to Act

Sometimes when you can't sleep at night, you get "the urge."

 
Caught Masturbating? What to Do and How to Act

By: Zoe Wilder

It's late. You can't sleep. And you’re thinking how your lovemaking has recently taken a backseat to your partner’s busy work schedule. The even breathing coming from the pillow next to yours tells you that you’re the only one who’s still awake, so you decide it's the perfect time to tiptoe into the bathroom with Durex® Massage & Play Sensual lubricant to "do the deed." You try to be quiet and discreet, but while you’re flipping through your favorite magazine, you hear a creak in floorboards and the bathroom door opens. Busted!

No Need to Blush

Chances are that both you and your partner turn five shades of red when you get caught in the act even though there’s no need to feel embarrassed. Masturbation is natural. You care for each other and only have to remind yourselves that no two libidos are always in sync. Simply explain how you were trying to be considerate by letting your lover get some much-needed sleep. Once the shock wears off, smile and laugh about it. Intimacy takes all forms and this is just one manifestation of it.

Invite Your Partner to Watch

Having your partner watch you masturbate can be a big turn-on for both of you. Offer the assurance that you’re totally into an intimate audience, and then proceed with your business once your partner gives you the go-ahead. This is a perfect way to squelch any initial embarrassment that filled the air when you were discovered.

Ask for Help

You can also turn the awkward situation into an intimate one by asking your partner to assist you in finishing what started out as a solo experience. Requesting help is a fun and cheeky way to melt away any embarrassment the two of you initially felt. Be playful. Be sexy. And be open to more.

Parlay It into Foreplay

Since your partner is awake and knows that you're already hot and bothered, it’s a perfect opportunity to parlay the situation into foreplay. Grab that pack of Durex® Extra Sensitive™ condoms that’s next to your lube – and turn the romance toward your lover. Let your partner know how much you've missed the mutual intimacy you share together.

Finish with Finesse

Also keep in mind that your partner might not be in a frisky mood. That's OK. It's perfectly normal to be on different pages sometimes. If you can tell that partner just isn’t up for what you are, don’t press the issue. Let your lover return to bed, promising that you’ll be there shortly. Then you can finish what you started and maybe still get in some cuddle time together.

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