Swimming Pool Sex: Is It Safe

During hot days or a relaxing vacation, few things are more relaxing than swimming in a pool. The feeling of the water on your bare skin may make you feel a little curious about swimming pool sex. 

Movies and TV shows can make sex in the pool seem enjoyable and easy. You may ask yourself if sex in a swimming pool is actually safe. If you’re considering poolside sex, there are a few factors to bear in mind, such as health and safety risks like condom effectiveness in water. 

In this article, we explore potential health and safety risks of having sex in a pool, safer alternatives to consider, and more.

Why Swimming Pool Sex Seems Appealing

Water can make you feel playful and refreshed. A pool can make you feel weightless. Touching, holding, and kissing your partner can add a new level of enjoyment, while warm sunshine and beautiful scenery can feel exotic and exciting. The pool's location can also make this environment feel private enough for sexual adventure.

There's a common misconception that the pool's water can reduce friction and increase glide. In reality, the watery environment of your backyard pool can make intimacy uncomfortable. On top of that, swimming pool sex isn’t hygienic, especially if others use the pool and the condom breaks or comes off.

Is Pool Sex Safe?

Swimming pool sex may sound exciting, but water changes how your body responds to touch. Water also affects lubrication, sensitivity, and barrier protection.¹ These changes can influence comfort and safety for both partners. Some concerns may surprise you, especially if pool sex looks easy in movies.

Condom effectiveness in water

Putting on a condom may be more difficult in the pool.² Water can make the condom slippery. You may lose the secure fit that you need to stay protected. Since water can increase friction, the condom may have a higher risk of breaking. If you want barrier protection near water, condoms are a great choice for outside the pool.

When you want a soft and flexible option, explore Durex Real Feel Non-Latex Condoms. You can also explore a wider range of Non-Latex Condoms for more choices that suit your needs.

If you want more guidance on safe swimming pool sex, your doctor can offer personal advice. They can answer all your questions so you can make an informed choice.

Chlorine irritation

Chlorine is great for keeping your pool clean, but it's also a strong chemical. When this chemical comes into contact with the more sensitive areas of your body, you may experience uncomfortable symptoms. Swimming pool sex can make sensitive skin feel even more uncomfortable: you may notice dry skin, stinging, or itching.³

The water can also wash away your body's natural moisture. Without vaginal moisture, you may notice more friction during penetrative sex. If you decide to explore sex in the pool, listen to what your body is telling you and pause if you feel discomfort.

According to the experts, water can change how your body responds to sexual intimacy. Chlorine can irritate the skin and make it more sensitive.⁴ This sensitivity can also increase if the water washes away your natural lubrication. 

Safer Alternatives for Intimacy in Water

You can enjoy intimate moments without swimming pool sex. Try floating together while holding hands. You and your partner can wrap your arms or legs around each other and enjoy kissing and closeness. These activities help you avoid friction or irritation.

You don't have to be in the pool to enjoy the romantic atmosphere. You may find sex near the pool just as titillating. Since your skin will be dry, you can enjoy sex without the discomfort. If you like to use lube during sex, lubricants are more effective outside the water. You can also add Durex Intense Nitrile Condoms to the mix, which mold to your body and offer better body-heat transfer than latex condoms, so all you feel is your partner.

Bottom Line on Swimming Pool Sex Safety

Your favorite reality show may make sex in the water look exciting, but your pool can make staying comfortable and safe more difficult. Overall, it’s best to keep sex outside of the pool. Poolside sex, whether on the pool deck or a lounge chair, can be an exciting and comfortable way to get intimate with your partner while still taking in the relaxing ambiance of this outdoor water feature.     

References

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