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Phone Sex 101

Phone sex is a great way to spice things up and stay connected.

 
Phone Sex 101

By: Natasha Burton

Phone sex is a great way to spice things up–and stay connected when you're physically apart.

No doubt, phone sex can seem a little cheesy in theory, but definitely don't rule it out: Getting busy over the phone is an amazing way to keep things sexy in your relationship, especially when one of you is out of town or if you and your partner happen to live apart.

Ready to try phone sex on for size? All it takes is a little practice and a tiny bit of finesse – soon you'll be talking dirty like a pro.

Start With Texting

Sexting is a great gateway, if you will, into full-on phone sex. You can take time to think about what you want to say, and you don't really have to say all that much to turn your partner (and yourself) on. You could even try sending a dirty photo or two to really get the action going.

Choose the Right Time and Place

When you're ready to try phone sex, make sure you do it in a place you can be alone without interruptions and that you give yourself some time. You may want to be in bed, wearing little to nothing, and you for sure don't want to have to stop the conversation early to run to a work dinner or meet a deadline. Give yourself at least an hour to dedicate to your phone sex romp, at least for the first time.

Have a Plan

It may be helpful to have some sort of outline of what you might want to say. Perhaps there's a fantasy you've always wanted to tell your partner, or maybe you can play some kind of dirty version of "never have I ever" to help spark some sexy creativity. In any case, you don't want to answer the phone and feel like your mind is totally blank. Having at least a loose plan will help push the action along.

Be Her Guide

A great way to start the action is to take charge of the conversation. Lead your partner into a series of tasks: Ask her to go into the bedroom, tell her what lingerie to put on, and then have her tell you want she wants from you. By starting things off this way, you'll both be engaged in – and excited about – the rest of the conversation to come. Once you're in full swing, up the ante by suggesting she break out a vibrator to accompanying the verbal with physical stimulation.

Talk Dirty

Once the conversation is in full swing, it's time to let loose. Describe where you'd touch your partner and kiss her, and how fast or slow, prompting her to guide her hands to where you tell her to. Don't forget to tell her what you're doing to yourself, and ask her guide you as well. To keep your dirty talk from getting too dirty, focus on replacing down-there body part words with "you" or "me" – don't worry, she'll get the idea entirely.

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