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Kinky Sex Ideas

Kinky sex: Let your curiosity run wild.

 
Kinky Sex Ideas

While some people are perfectly happy with "vanilla" sex — just the basics — many people are curious about kinky sex from dressing up and bondage to anal play and beyond, there are plenty of kinky sex ideas to choose from.

There's nothing wrong with kinky sex and no one should judge you for your fantasies. However, start slowly when it comes to sharing your desires. If spanking sets you aflame, ask your lover for a slap on the butt during sex — it can often be easier in the heat of the moment — to test their reaction. Should bondage appeal, start by asking your lover to pin you down during sex. And if you like latex, show them an outfit online and ask what they think.

"Kink can be a wonderful way to add spice to your relationship, building intimacy, acceptance and trust."

Erotic stories can be a great way to communicate your desires in a subtle way. Buy your lover a sexy book that includes the kink that turns you on, and ask them to show or read you the sections they like (if any) out loud.

Alternatively, if you're confident that your lover will be open-minded, be direct. Ask if there's anything new they'd like to try and tell them what appeals to you. By listening to your lover's desires, being non-judgmental and considering making their dreams come true (assuming you don't find their kinks a turn-off), you're more likely to get a positive response to your own kinky sex penchants.

Before any form of BDSM (bondage, domination, sadism and masochism), however mild, set a safe word. This is a word you wouldn't usually use during sex (some people like to use "no" and "stop" during kinky play as part of a "scene"). Many people opt for a traffic light system with red meaning "stop," yellow meaning "slow down" and green meaning "go for it!"

Keep play safe, sane and consensual. This means reading up on any safety guidelines (almost every kink has safety info online), avoiding doing anything while either partner is under the influence of alcohol or drugs and only exploring things that you both want to do.

If anal play gets you off, use lots of lube, go slowly and make sure you keep it safe. Both men and women can enjoy it so don't feel bad about exploring different roles.

Kinky sex can be a wonderful way to add spice to your relationship and build intimacy, acceptance and trust. Approach kinky sex ideas in the right way and who knows where it might lead.

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