How to Love Passionately

Deeply loving your partner can be rewarding

How to Love Passionately

By: Zoe Wilder

To be passionately in love is one of life's most rewarding experiences. You meet, you connect, you romance, you love. There's a connection, a desire to learn more about each other. It's important to fan the flames between two enchanted lovers, igniting an unmistakable passion. When you do, the love burns brighter and could lead to a life filled with better sex, more laughter and stronger friendship. Follow these four tips to love your partner passionately.

Love Fearlessly

When you meet the love of your life, you may find yourself holding back for various reasons. However, it's important for you to love fearlessly. Don't be afraid to feel all of the feelings (not just the good ones), since the bad feelings give meaning to the beautiful ones. Give yourself the freedom to be goofy. Allow yourself and your partner to simply be without conforming to societal paradigms. Remember to have an open mind. Part of your relationship journey is learning new things about your partner. Welcome these discoveries.

Love Unconditionally

Unconditional love has no bounds. It's unwavering, and an absolute must to achieve passionate love. Love your partner for the good, not so good, and sometimes annoying habits and moods we all go through. If you do this, it will likely be reciprocated. It's important to look at your lover as a dynamic and fascinating individual worthy of your love – even if there's an off day every now and again. Because as wonderful and magical as love can be, we're all human.

Love Loyally

Loyalty is one of the most important aspects of passion. The stronger your bond with your partner is, the more passion you'll cultivate in your relationship. While words are wonderful, showing your support with actions is even better. Stand by your partner through rough transitions, bad days, crazy phases, mood swings and unpredictable situations. Life throws a lot of curve balls, and it means the world to know the love of your life will be there for you to hold your hand, rub your head and shower you with kindness at the end of the day. It's as simple as just being present and available.

Love Wildly

Be uninhibited together. Make out for hours. Make love in crazy places. Learn new positions. Watch sexy movies. Make a sex tape. Experiment with toys like the Durex® Play® Delight Intimate Massager. Acting out your fantasies will help fuel the passion in your relationship, so don’t be afraid to try something new.


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