When your man gets home after a long day at work, offer him some stress relief in the form of a sensual head massage. The scalp is home to many sexual stimulation spots, so let your hands gently caress his with slow circular movements and hear him moan with delight. Once you are done with the scalp, sensually work your way towards the neck and shoulders area until you reach the trouser department, which is when the fun really begins! To increase the pleasure even further, add the Durex Massage & Play 2 in 1 Lubricant Sensual with Ylang Ylang and watch him squirm.
Nothing turns a guy on more than being teased whilst knowing that he cannot have you there and then. During your dinner date or night at the movies, use your hand to gently stroke his thigh with slow, firm movements up towards his groin. Feel his erection grow and leave him longing for the bill to arrive or for the film to finish so that he can whisk you home and into the bedroom.
During sex, eye contact can be very erotic while adding a sense of greater passion to the moment. Similarly, during foreplay, you can use the same technique to whip your man into a frenzy. Most people close their eyes when kissing but try keeping them open to retain that eye contact. Next, move your hands down to his penis, while still holding your partner's gaze as you stimulate him simultaneously. If things progress to oral sex, keep your eyes glued to his as you can equally watch his enjoyment as he gets closer to climax.4. The strip tease
Even if they don’t admit it, every guy still fantasizes about Jennifer Beals’ strip scene from the movie Flashdance. After all the sight of a woman, scantily clad and moving around in a provocative fashion is bound to drive any guy wild, even more so if it’s the woman he loves. The first step is to make sure you’ve selected your sexiest lingerie from the drawer, make sure to wear something loose and easy to remove when the time is right. Once you’ve chosen your sexiest outfit, put on some sensual music with a strong baseline and let your striptease routine commence. Remember to close the curtains to ensure it’s just for your man’s eyes only!
Not one for the timid, self-masturbation in front of your partner can seem like a daunting, if not slightly embarrassing act. However, it doesn’t have to be. Turn the lights down low, strip down to your underwear, and start slowly caressing your breasts whilst passionately kissing your partner. This alone should be enough to bring on his erection almost immediately. If you want to go further, take your hand down in between your knickers and start playing with your clitoris. For an even more thrilling sensation, let his hands join yours so that he can feel what you are doing, but let him know that you are in control to tip him over the edge!
This is a little trick to try out during a passionate kiss. Starting at his lips, move your way around to his cheek and then over to his left ear. Blow lightly on his lobes before nibbling, sucking or licking them gently to increase the stimulation. Gently move your way back to his lips and then make your way to the opposite ear. The ear lobes have hundreds of nerve endings and are considered an erogenous zone, so this flirty trick is guaranteed to give him a thrill. Due to the ear’s sensitivity, increase your partner’s pleasure by being as slow and as gentle as possible.
Following on from the above tip, talking to dirty to your partner can turn him on even more. Take the opportunity to whisper to him some naughty messages to really drive him crazy. Fear not, what you whisper doesn’t have to be rude or obscene. By simply telling him that you want him now or that you can’t wait to get home with him, will do the trick and leave him wanting more. Including sexy talk can really heighten sexual tension during initial foreplay as well as increased passion during sex later on.
Let's not underestimate the power of foreplay—it can be just as exhilarating as intercourse itself, and sometimes even the main event! With these expert foreplay tips, you'll have the ability to drive your partner wild with desire.
Remember, communication is the key to ensuring a satisfying and safe experience. Engage in open and honest discussions about your desires and boundaries. And of course, prioritize your sexual well-being by incorporating Durex® condoms into your intimate moments. Embrace the pleasure and let the sparks fly!
MedlinePlus, 2022, Safe sex
]]>If you and your partner are living together and are not displaying any symptoms, the COVID-19 outbreak shouldn’t change anything to your situation. If, however, any of you are displaying symptoms, even if they are mild, you should social distance and follow local/government guidelines relevant for you.
COVID-19 is not a STI/STD. It is a virus that is mainly spread through small respiratory droplets via coughing, sneezing or through droplets of saliva or discharge from the nose. This is why a condom will not protect you from getting COVID-19.
Do use a condom to prevent STD/STIs and unintended pregnancy though.
You can meet a new partner online, but it is important that for now you are not meeting in person and to follow your local / government guidelines on social distancing even if none of you are displaying any symptoms. This is important as staying at home is key in slowing the spread of the virus. Also keep in mind that some people have the virus and are not displaying any symptoms so can pass it on without even knowing. The incubation period (time between catching the virus and beginning to have symptoms) is currently estimated between 1-14 days*.
*https://www.who.int/news-room/q-a-detail/q-a-coronaviruses
Sex may not be possible due to social distancing rules that mean staying at home, but it doesn’t mean you can’t meet people online - start talking on the phone, have video chats, sext or have phone sex, masturbate together, if that is your thing. Remember to stay safe online. Do not give out personal details unless you are absolutely sure you know who the person is. Any activity should always be consensual - that is, you are both comfortable and there's no pressure to do something you don't want to.
That all depends on your situation…
If you & your partner are not living together or if you are living together but one of you is displaying even mild symptoms, best is to not have sex for now and follow local/government guidelines relevant for you.
If you are living together and neither of you are displaying any symptoms, then the usual rules of safe sex apply, and condoms will be the best way to protect from STIs and unplanned pregnancies.
If you are single, you are your safest partner right now. Masturbation is a great way to self-pleasure and discover what you are into and where you like to be touched. Some research also shows that it may help relieve stress. For more on masturbation, click here.
In these difficult times, not everyone has sexual privacy as they might be sharing small physical spaces. Sexual pleasure is a luxury for many people right now. Enjoy, be safe, protect yourself and others.
COVID-19 is mainly spread through respiratory droplets, so even kissing an infected person can put you at risk. If a recent partner developed symptoms, please make sure to self-isolate and monitor your symptoms. Also, please be responsible so if you had other partners during that time too, please let them know.
We strongly advise against meeting new people in person during the COVID-19 outbreak and strongly advise to follow local/government guidelines relevant for you. But it is totally ok to still use dating apps and services. Virtually dating at home can be an exciting new way to explore too. For ideas and ways to #DateAtHome click here.
Also don’t forget that you are your safest sex partner. Masturbation is a great way to discover your body and what works for you. There is as well some scientific evidence that suggests it may help relieve stress. Only thing to keep in mind is that if you use sex toys, you should wash them and your hands with soap for at least 20 seconds before and after use. More on masturbation can be found on: A Finger of Fun
If you and your partner are looking for some ideas on how to date at home and keep your sex life interesting right now, please click here for some inspiration.
But as we want everyone to have a good time, please keep in mind that people do have different sex drives, so it’s important that you have an open, honest and respectful conversation about this.
]]>Date night isn’t just for going out. Plan your perfect date night in – with yourself. From your usual getting ready routine, to cooking a fancy meal and watching your favourite movie, you’re in the driver’s seat. End the perfect evening with some ‘me time’. With mood lighting, and the right music and atmosphere, whether that’s in the bath or in your bedroom, grab your favourite lube and end the evening on a high note.
Self-love is the motto for everyone. Take the time to work on the hobbies you never have time for or learn that skill you’ve been itching to try. It’s also time to do the tasks you would usually do for others, for yourself; whether that’s rustling up your favourite breakfast in bed, treating yourself to a bunch of flowers or enjoying some self-care.
Now’s the time to explore your sexual side. With more time for yourself, enjoy some quality ‘me time’ and rediscover your own body. Whether you’re reaching for your favourite vibrator or lube, learn what feels good to you. Knowing how to please yourself is the best way to know how to guide future sexual partners in the ways to please you too.
Put the technology aside, turn-off the TV and enjoy some silence. Alone time gives you the space to clear your mind and mediate on what you really want out of life. That doesn’t mean answering the big questions, rather take a step back and review your emotional state, analyse past relationships and figure out where you want your future relationship to go. It’s about understanding what you did and didn’t enjoy about previous relationships and getting ready to try something different in the future.
Healthy relationships start with good communication, and that includes with yourself. There’s no reason to be embarrassed by your sexual desires. Spending time alone is the perfect time to discover what you like to do. Be open and honest about what you enjoy. Come out of your sexual shell and masturbate with an try some different sex toys and lubes, it could help you discover what you do and don’t like with future sexual partners too.
Compliments are easy to give and hard to accept, especially when it comes to complimenting ourselves. It’s time to celebrate all the things everyone else loves about you, and learn to love them yourself. Own the confidence boost – there might be some great things you love about yourself that others may have overlooked. Write ‘I have done lists’ rather than ‘to-do lists’ and increase your sense of accomplishment or send yourself a love letter celebrating your best features. Pay it forward by sharing what you value most about your friends and family with them.
Our everyday lives don’t always give us the opportunity to spend time on our own and discover what we want and like. While you have it, take the time to explore your sexuality, and discover the things in life that make you happy. Being on your own doesn’t mean you have to be lonely. When you’ve had enough time on your own, reach out to your friends and family. There are a multitude of platforms out there you can use to connect. Whatever you choose, have fun, you deserve it!
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As a singleton, hearing the words social distancing may have you thinking your dating life is over. But, with dating app usage on the rise, it seems those looking for love are finding inventive ways to keep the spark alive… or get it going. While we must all follow the government’s advice, quarantine doesn’t mean lonely evenings in – just an opportunity to have some virtual fun. So put on your sexiest tunes, ramp up the swiping and make sure you know how to work that video call: this is dating in the age of isolation.
Virtual dating is the perfect excuse to experiment without having the pressure of face-to-face contact. Forget the quarantine anxiety – see this as an opportunity to explore who you look for and what you like. We’re all guilty of the same dating cycle; choosing the wrong ones, the not-so right ones… and choosing them all over again. But isolation breeds self-reflection and there’s never been a better time to broaden your horizons. Embrace not having to dedicate an evening to a potential timewaster. For now you don’t to schlep across town and risk disappointment… you just have to turn your laptop on: it’s low risk, high demand.
We’re all using isolation to learn new skills and get creative, so explore this with a potential partner. Take the opportunity to discover their hidden talents… and show them yours. Use technology to your advantage and build a relationship before any virtual link up; apps provide great conversation starters, so give your profile an isolation makeover. When our currency is time, it pays to explore your future bae’s profile before going screen-to-screen.
Let’s be honest, first dates are awkward. There’s a reason for pre-dinner butterflies and plenty of things that’ll make you sweat in your seat. But just because you’re dating at home, doesn’t mean you can’t mitigate awkward silences or bad dates dragging out. So, make the most of the functionality of video calling apps. On a first date, timing is everything – it’s always important to have an out just in case your beau doesn’t deliver the goods. The beauty of some of the popular video apps is that calls can’t last more than forty minutes, which gives you a ready excuse if the spark isn’t there. Another bonus is that you can set your own background – letting you keep your private spaces, private, even in isolation. Choose a background that says something about you, they’re a great conversation starter.
Dating is all about mood, and often, it’s the getting ready that sets the vibe of the evening. Without a destination for your date, it’s easy to forgo this process, but don’t let quarantine change what makes you feel good. Confidence is key, and good dates begin with loving yourself first. Have a shower, get friends to join a video call and help you choose an outfit… or even have a practice date session (warning: do this with great friends). Maintain a sense of normality by giving yourself time to feel date ready. As some of you may be isolating with relatives, make sure you’ve got a designated date room in the house… and get that virtual link-up lighting on point.
The thought of a date without the promise of an atmosphere – background music, bar stools… other people can be nerve wracking for some. Even the prospect of keeping the conversation flowing might seem daunting. So, give yourself an activity to do together – it’s a great way to start the conversation and test their powers of creativity. Try cooking the same meal together or setting each other a culinary challenge. Seeing what someone can rustle up with 5 cupboard ingredients is a genius way to understand they live up to your palette.
Getting past the first-date hurdle is an achievement, but a good experience can make date two feel high pressured. If you’re worrying about how to maintain that instant attraction, suggest a virtual game or quiz to give you something to connect over. You can learn a lot about someone by how seriously they take their general knowledge, and this could be a way to fast-track the dating process. If you’re after a more mellow evening, bring the big screen home with by watching a movie together. And if you’re in the market to woo your new quarantine lover, order them a surprise to their door; brownie boxes or favourite food with the delivery apps.
Just as with dating in the real world, it’s important to take everything at your own pace. As you progress in your relationship and feel yourself opening up, you may want to take things a little further. If you do, why not experiment with lubes if you feel comfortable – the experience is about getting to know your partner, but also getting to know yourself.
Our love lives may have drastically changed, but this shouldn’t turn you off dating. It goes without saying that we should all respect government advice, so romantic forays need to be a virtual affair for the time being. Let’s rise to the challenge of online romance, because while we don’t know how long quarantine will last, we do know the build-up will be worth the wait. So, stay at home, date online and find your quarantine crush.
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There’s no need to hold yourself back from enjoying sex and experimenting sexually with whomever you fancy (presuming they fancy it too… it’s probably time to let your insta-crush know you exist). Just be mindful of how to stay safe – whatever your age, relationship status, gender or sexuality. Because if there’s one thing STIs have going for them, it’s that they don’t discriminate.
Condoms can provide STI protection, so you can enjoy the ride. Just make sure they’re a snug fit and not expired (you can find the expiry date printed on the box and foil packing of all Durex condoms). Make sure to always use a lubricant that is compatible with condoms–Certain lubricants can weaken the condom which can cause them to break. Always follow the instructions printed on the condom foil and box. And remember that if someone is pressuring you to have unprotected sex when you want to use protection, it’s your body and your choice – so what you want goes.
Now let’s get down to it – here are the most common STIs and their associated symptoms to look out for.
Chlamydia is one of the most common STIs in the US and often doesn’t show any symptoms whatsoever – particularly with women. That’s why it’s really important to get yourself tested at the doctors or sexual health clinic every so often (and any time after you’ve had unprotected sex with a new partner).
Here are the symptoms to look out for if they do show:
Men:
Women:
Like chlamydia, genital herpes can be very difficult to spot at first, with symptoms generally not being all that noticeable. Once you have an outbreak you’ll definitely know though, as itchy and painful red blisters and spots will appear down there.
Typical symptoms include:
Men & women:
Just women:
For the majority of people gonorrhea is one of the most difficult STIs to treat, as the signs of having it are less obvious than other STIs. If symptoms do rear their ugly heads, it’s usually between one day and two weeks after the initial infection.
Symptoms of gonorrhea include:
Men:
Women:
Rectal infections may either cause no symptoms or cause symptoms in both men and women that may include:
The thought of contracting HIV is scary for anyone, but there have been huge medical developments in recent years with preventative medications like PrEP becoming more available. Great strides have also been made in tackling the stigma of HIV. It still remains a worldwide issue – with gay men being at the highest risk of getting infected here in the US– but thanks to advancements in medical care, research and education, people with HIV are more able to live full lives (but with more check-ups to go to and tablets to take than your average person.)
With HIV it’s actually easy for people to go for many years without suffering any symptoms, which is why if you think you might be at risk, it’s really important to get checked.
Here are the main symptoms:
Of course, don’t forget that more STIs exist than the ones mentioned, so if you have any doubts, visit your doctor or sexual health clinic.
Now you know the ins-and-outs – it should be easier to stay safe out there, and in the bedroom. Whatever takes your fancy.
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References:
FPA, 2017, New statistics on sexually transmitted infections raise concerns for services
CDC, 2022, Chlamydia - CDC Basic Fact Sheet
CDC, 2022, Genital Herpes - CDC Basic Fact Sheet
CDC, 2022, Gonorrhea - CDC Basic Fact Sheet
NHS, 2017, HIV & AIDS
NHS, 2017, Condoms
NHS, 2017, Male condoms: know the facts
]]>If you are looking to meet someone new, then this might be a great time to date online. By date online we mean spending time to get to know each other. It can be just as fun and a great way to connect with your match! Set up a time, dress up, pick a virtual activity you want to do together and make the effort to really get to know the person. Spend that time to communicate with your date. Be yourself. It’s okay to set a start and end time for virtual dates to avoid the awkwardness of first dates. If things work well, you can always set-up the second one.
These times are unexpected, but they will pass, hopefully sooner than later. Then you and your date can move to meeting in real life. When that date comes, here are a few things to keep in mind. Remember ‘safety first’ is always a precaution worth taking. No, we don’t mean putting on your seatbelt – unless you’re into car sex, then sure, why not?!? We mean making sure you minimize the risk of catching an STI by protecting yourself and your partner(s). And what’s more, when you feel comfortable and safe during sex, chances are you’ll find it easier to relax and enjoy. Here are some quick tips to have safe sex:
Seems obvious, right? Especially when the number of STIs is on the rise (1). Lots of people blame condoms interrupting the moment, not being big enough, or not feeling right, but the truth is they come in all different assortments: different sizes, different thicknesses’, different flavours, so you can try different types to find one that works for you. So, there’s not really any excuse for not using one. They even come in portable, cheaper packs for you to slip in your pocket or purse now too!
Whilst it might sound scary, getting yourself tested at a sexual health clinic is a great way to stay on top of your health, and is rarely as big a deal as we think. The great thing is if you’re responsible in other aspects of your sex lives, like using protection, it’s likely getting tested will be a mere precaution. And who doesn’t love passing a test?
Don’t forget to have a conversation with your partner(s) about their sexual health too, so you can all make well-informed decisions.
It’s time we were all more vocal about oral because we can contract STIs from giving oral sex too. Giving oral sex when your partner has a condom on ensures all parties stay safe and condoms are available in some nice flavours too (who doesn’t love strawberry?!?), so you get extra enjoyment when using one. Or, some people use dental dams to protect themselves. A dental dam is a thin sheet of latex used during oral sex. It acts as a barrier and can feel pretty sexy if used in the right way. Dental dams come in flavours too!
Did you know that dryness during sex makes you more likely to contract an STI due to the increase in friction? So, use lube for smooth sailing. Make sure you use water-based lubricant though, anything else might damage the condom.
1)World Health Organisation (2019) https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/sexually-transmitted-infections-(stis)
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]]>Of course, when it comes to sex we’re all aware there’s something important we need to factor in: protection. Staying safe is a must, regardless of how caught up in the moment you and your partner are, but how well do you know the ins-and-outs of a fun, safe sexual experience?
To help you figure things out for yourself, here’s our guide to safe sex…
When you think of condoms, it’s probably male condoms that first come to mind - these help protect against STIs and pregnancy and are the most commonly used. But did you know about female condoms? Women put these inside their vagina before sex (or their partners put it in for them) and just like the male equivalent they can also create a barrier to prevent STIs and pregnancy.
Tell me more…
Both male and female condoms help you stay safe from STIs, especially if you’re enjoying an encounter but aren’t aware of your partner's sexual health. Men’s condoms come in a bunch of shapes, sizes and thicknesses, so you can explore and find one that works for you.
The pill is a daily tablet taken by women and girls all over the world. It contains hormones that prevent pregnancy in a variety of ways, depending on the type of pill (there are loads of different ones). Other forms of contraception for women are growing in popularity and availability, like the IUD (or coil) and the implant.The pill is the most common, but all require consistency of use as directed for it to work effectively.
Don’t forget though…
The pill doesn’t protect against STIs like condoms do, and sometimes it can cause side effects(1) that aren’t so great, including nausea, tenderness, bleeding between periods and mood changes - if you have any uncomfortable symptoms or worries, talk it over with your GP or local sexual health clinic. The pill is currently only available for females, though a male version is being tested. (Want to learn more? Check out: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/male-pill/).
While not a form of contraception, consent should be at the center of any sexual experience. Making sure you and your partner are on the same page, are both explicitly excited about doing it and feel comfortable… hot!
Bear in mind…
Drinking and drugs can affect consent – if you or your partner(s) are drunk or high then you might not have the capacity to consent. It’s always better to wait until everyone’s in the right state of mind. Always make sure you have consent from the person you’re with before sex, and likewise never do anything you don’t feel comfortable with. There’s nothing more attractive than a resounding ‘yes!’ from the person you’re with.
If you want to learn more about your contraception options, talk it over with your GP or local sexual health clinic to determine what would be the best fit for your body and your life.
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Bump up the romance with an at-home date night…
Coming home to find out that your partner filled your house with roses and candlelight would instantly put pretty much anyone in the mood – unless you just had the busiest day at work and all you want to do is put your hair up, sweatpants on, and veg out to your favorite TV series.
While spontaneity is a great way to pamper and be pampered, planning an intimate evening in advance is often a better option because it sets the expectation for the romantic evening to come. A special evening doesn’t need to be a shock to be exhilarating; in fact, planning the night together is often all you will need to create the ultimate romantic night.
Here’s how to turn an evening at home into an intimate date night:
Spontaneity is great in theory, but plans leave little room for error. For instance, if your partner doesn’t know about your special surprise, they may end up working late or going to dinner with friends instead.
Look over your calendars and find a night where both of you are free. If you want to keep an element of surprise, keep what you’ve planned a secret!
Depending on your mood and preferences, you may consider a whimsical theme for your intimate evening. For example, you might evoke a Moroccan motif by stringing up lanterns, serving dinner in a tagine and sitting on pillows around your coffee table for a candlelit meal.
If DIY isn’t your thing, rent a room at a local upscale hotel – weeknight rates are always cheaper – and imagine you’re on vacation! Whatever you choose to do, you’ll be filled with anticipation as you dream up your night together.
Decide what activities you want to include in your intimate evening. You could cook together, watch a movie you both love, play a game, orchestrate a wine tasting, look through old pictures or try painting portraits of each other. Even dial up the fun by choosing activities with a playful, intimate twist. For example, try a game of strip poker or a grown-up version of truth or dare.
Once you’ve determined what the plan is, any décor you’d like to incorporate, and any other romantic details, prep for the evening by taking a relaxing shower or bath, applying your favorite lotion or perfume, and wearing an outfit you love and makes you feel confident. Think of your preparation as a way of getting yourself in the mood mentally for the evening ahead.
Even the most carefully orchestrated evenings may have a couple hiccups. Maybe the chocolate soufflé didn’t quite puff up or perhaps you spilled wine on your new outfit; it happens! Allow yourself to revel in the details – and your partner’s company – during your intimate evening. If it’s not quite perfect or doesn’t exactly follow the plan, don’t sweat it. In fact, tiny mishaps just may make the evening more memorable and fun!
]]>Condoms are a great form of birth control and protection; however, the only way they effectively work is if they don’t break. A condom breaking can be a major mood killer for both you and your partner, which can lead to devastating consequences. However, we’ve found the top reasons for condom breakages and luckily there are simple and effective ways to keep your condoms and passion intact.
If you’re in the moment and the only condom you can find is the one you forgot about stuffed at the back of your wallet, make sure you check the expiration date. We know it’s the last thing you want to think of while you and your partner are in the heat of the moment, but expiration dates are there for a reason. Once the condom reaches its end date, it won’t be effective in keeping you and your partner safe as it can easily tear.
Like your favorite beverage, your condoms should be stored in a cool, dry place. Leaving your condoms stashed in your hot car or on your bedside table within direct sunlight, can damage the condoms material leaving you and your partner susceptible to sexually transmitted infections. To ensure your condoms are fully protected from outside elements, find a place in your bedroom that you can keep your condoms safely tucked away. If you decide to keep a condom in your wallet, make sure to not have them in there for long as they can also easily tear the condom due to constant friction.
If there is friction whilst having sex, not only will it cause pain for you and your partner causing pain and irritation, it can cause the condom to essentially break. To keep your condoms intact, make sure you use lubricant or buy ones that are pre-lubed, like Durex Extra Sensitive. Adding a lube can help ensure that your condom is protected from any friction and allows you and your partner to enjoy your intimate moment without any fear of breakage, making it more pleasurable for you both.
Like that last pair of jeans in the sale that wasn’t in your size, condoms come in a variety of sizes to help make them more comfortable and allow circulation for better comfort. If you are noticing that your condoms are too tight, the friction and tension can cause it to tear. If you’re struggling to find a condom that gives you a bit of leeway, try going up a size. However, if you are finding that your condoms are too loose or causing you to lose any sensation, try our range of think condoms to offer the perfect fit.
Simple fact, a condom will not be effective if not applied correctly. They should always be rolled down gently, leaving a little bit of room at the top to help prevent any breakage or tear. If you are nervous or too excited to put the condom on properly, get your partner to help secure the condom for the both of you. Taking your time to properly put on a condom is essential in reducing any tears or slippage that you might face. However, if you decide to double up on condoms to give you further protection, the condom is prone to become less effective, reducing you and your partner’s safety and protection.
Condoms are a great form of birth control and protection; however, the only way they effectively work is if they don’t break. A condom breaking can be a major mood killer for both you and your partner which can lead to devastating consequences. However, we’ve found the top reasons for condom breakages and luckily there are simple and effective ways to keep your condoms and passion intact.
]]>Getting bored with your standard sex positions or looking to try something new tonight? These creative sex positions are perfect for you to try out every day no matter where you decide to get it on. Whether you and your girlfriend have been together for a long time or you want to impress the girl you just started dating, here are 4 creative sex positions that are sure to add some fun to your night.
Not going to be able to reach the bed in time or looking to add some adventure to your intimate sessions? Try this position that will have her climbing the walls…or the stairs, whichever one you prefer. Begin by having your partner kneel in front of you at the landing of a staircase as she leans forwards with her back towards yours. Grab her hips as you enter her but make sure to hold onto one side of the banister for additional support. While you are thrusting, this position allows you access to her G-spot as she is angled at a unique upward tilt. For a more intense feeling that will have you both begging for more, have her bear down on you so that her butt meshes super snug to your groin or have her reach through her legs to grope your testicles as you pump in and out.
Whether you are looking for some backseat action or wanting to take your outdoor loving to the next level, this position is sure to rev her up. Choose a flat surface or a bed to ensure that you both are comfortable. Have her lay on her back with her knees up to your chin, kneel in front of her as you enter her slowly. For extra leverage, grab hold of her butt as you lift her slowly towards you as you thrust more deeply in her. Not only does position give you a great birds eye view of her breasts, it allows you a little lip action so lick, suck and nibble away.
Feeling impulsive and creative? Begin by lying on your back with your legs together and your arms at your side while your partner straddles you with her knees to other side of you. As she fully lowers herself onto you, have her slowly stretch her legs out so that she’s lying straight on top of you. Once she is comfortably in place, have her grasp her hands onto your arms as she slowly lifts herself up and down. For added leverage, flex your feet so that she can push against them with her toes. Not only does this position allow you both to move slowly simultaneously, you can apply lube onto the clitoris to further stimulate her while both your skin heats things up.
On those cold wintery nights when you and your partner are looking for something to do, dive into this position that is sure to have her coming back for more. Begin by having her sit on the edge of the bed, couch or two chairs with her legs spread wide. Stand in front of her with your knees bended slightly so you can easily enter her. Have her lean backwards with her hands supporting as you thrust in and out of her. Not only will this provide more stability for her, you get an amazing view of her breasts bobbing up and down as you enter her. All that frontal friction will hit her G-spot, ensuring that you both are satisfied. To dial things up a bit more, you can get some hands-on-action by slowing things down and massaging her nipples with your fingers or paying extra attention to her clitoris with your fingers. Whatever you choose, both of you will enjoy it.
]]>Regardless of age, gender or sexuality, the first time you have sex is an exciting milestone in life that can cement the growing love between you and your partner. But with that comes a certain set of expectations that can cause a build-up of nerves in the days before your romantic encounter. With that in mind, we’ve put together a few helpful pieces of information in an effort to reduce those nerve-wracking ‘what-ifs’.
It might seem ridiculous to be nervous about something as common as sex, but considering the intimacy and trust involved, it is common to lack confidence when taking that step for the first time. One of the most important things to remember is that you’re in charge of when you want to do it. Regardless of what people around you seem to be doing, the decision to have sex comes down to individual choice, and ultimately can only be made by you. It’s important to know the legal age of consent, but beyond that there is no wrong or right time to take that step.
If your relationship is as important to your partner as it is to you, they’ll understand how you feel; and if you need to wait, they will wait for you. If you go into sex feeling unprepared and not ready, you are unlikely to enjoy it and may end up regretting it.
If you are unsure of your sexual orientation during this time, the pressure can feel even more intimidating. The process of understanding your own gender and sexual identities can be a confusing and difficult time to evaluate, both emotionally and physically. In this instance, it’s even more important to take things slowly and decide if the person you’re planning on sleeping with is the right one for you.
In the body-conscious world of 21st Century Britain, men can suffer from serious image concerns, with research showing that four in five males show to have an anxiety about their body image. 29% of those polled also thought about their appearance at least five times a day.
The statistics are even more notable among men who identify as homosexual, with a recent poll by Attitude magazine showing that a huge 84% of gay men feeling intense pressure to have a ‘good’ body possibly due to the way they are represented on television and in film.
When it comes to women, a staggering 75% felt anxious about the way themselves and others perceived their bodies. It is estimated that the prevalence of body dysmorphic disorder is about 5 in every 1,000 people throughout the United Kingdom, which is likely to have a huge impact on sexual confidence and quality of life.
When it comes to sex, our fears are even more pronounced as we compare ourselves to representations of the body seen in the media and pornography. It’s easy to look at the performers in an adult film and be concerned that we don’t quite measure up, whether that be in muscle mass or even penis or breast size. Being content with your own body is easier said than done of course, but if the person lying in bed next to you ever makes you feel inadequate physically, perhaps it’s worth questioning whether they are the right person to be with.
A new relationship can be an exciting and overwhelming time for couples, and in the furore surrounding first time preparation and nerves, it’s pretty easy to forget about putting on a condom. You may also feel some embarrassment or worry that bringing up safe sex might ruin the mood. However, engaging in sex without contraception puts you at risk of contracting a range of STDs, and, for heterosexual cisgender couples, pregnancy.
Cases of HIV are on the rise in the UK, with gay men being one of the groups with the highest risk of contracting the disease. In 2014, there were over 3,000 new cases of HIV diagnosed in the gay community, nearly double the figure from 2001. Of the more common STDs, chlamydia is the most common in England, with over 200,000 cases reported in 2015.
Though considered less at risk, gay women still need to engage in safe sex in order to avoid passing infections through oral sex and the sharing of sex toys. The statistics in the heterosexual community paint a similar picture to those who identify as LGBT. In 2014, 968 straight men and just over 1,200 straight women were diagnosed with HIV.
While there are a number of options available when it comes to contraception, the condom reduces the risk of contracting STDs as well as the risk of unwanted pregnancy. With a huge variety of condoms on the market; from flavored to extra thin, you can help protect yourself and your new lover from unwanted pregnancies and infections, and have fun in the process. Dental dams can be used for cunnilingus (oral sex performed on a female) and if you and your partner want to use sex toys together it’s important to ensure you wash them regularly and avoid sharing.
Sex can be awkward, there’s no escaping that, and sometimes it can be pretty funny too, so be sure to choose a partner who puts you at ease and allows you to relax. If it’s your first time, the more you relax, the more likely you are to enjoy it.
Don’t allow yourself to get bogged down with labels. If you’re a gay man, don’t worry about discussing who’s going to top or who’s going to bottom; everything will come naturally and the person you’ve chosen to sleep with should completely understand, whether it’s their first time or not.
You may want to consider using a Durex massage gel and lube to help make you feel more comfortable. A mutual massage can help relax the body before engaging in intercourse while the lubricant will pay dividends in reducing that awkward atmosphere you’ve worked so hard to avoid. It will also help limit the discomfort you could feel if this is your first time.
Whatever your gender and sexual identities, the first time you have sex is likely to be an intense experience, but the upside of this is of course the opportunity to connect with someone on a level you may not have encountered previously. Keep in mind these simple tips to ensure you have a first-time experience that’s relaxing and ultimately satisfying for both you and your lover.
]]>Don’t let boring sex follow you and your partner into the new year! Whether you’ve always wanted to try something new or want to spice up your bedroom routine, here are a few sex positions that you and your partner need to try this new year.
Begin by your partner sitting in a low chair or on the edge of the bed as you straddle him in a kneeling position facing away from him. Once your partner has penetrated you, move your body back and forth as your partner thrusts into you. Your partner can use his free hands to hold onto your breasts or his fingers to stimulate your clitoris for increased pleasure. As you and your partner feel more comfortable and confident, lean forward so that both of your hands are touching the floor as your partner pulls your legs around him so that your legs are wrapped around his waist. Not only does this position allow for deeper penetration, it gives your partner a great view. If your arms begin to get tired, get into a kneeling position on the floor and finish off in a traditional doggie style.
Start by laying on your stomach with your bottom raised slightly in the air as your partner straddles you from behind and leans forward as if he’s lying on top of you. As your partner penetrates you, squeeze your legs together for a tighter and more pleasurable sensation. The tightness forces your partner to keep his thrusts short and shallow giving your clitoris immediate stimulation. If you want to spice up your lovemaking even further, you can add a vibrating sex toy to the festivities for an incredible sensation that both of you will enjoy.X Marks the Spot
Lay back on any soft surface with a pillow placed under your head for maximum comfort. Bring your knees up to your chests and cross your legs at your ankles as your guy kneels width-apart in front of you. Make sure to keep your thighs closely together as you gently press your feet against his chest as he enters you. Use your free hands to caress your partner’s thighs or touch your breasts as he moves back and forth with steady, sultry thrusts. To create even more jaw-dropping friction, contract your pelvic muscles which when tightened can increase his pleasure by squeezing his penis, creating the perfect tension for an orgasmic bliss.
]]>A great sex life involves lots of variety and trying new things. When it comes to location, being outside the bedroom can often make things more exciting, while adding a new dimension to the positions you choose. Here we look at 10 top places that you could choose for your next passionate encounter – and don’t worry, you don’t have to be a complete daredevil to try these out, we have selected some places that are still discreet.
From the edge of the sink to the side of the bath, the bathroom is full of nifty places to push back on when you and your partner next get the urge. The shower also makes for a sensual experience – all that running water, shower oil and plenty of hooks and ledges to grab hold of – great for those couples who enjoy sex standing up.
The kitchen table romp is a favorite in many films on the big screen, but why not re-enact it for yourself at home. Either choose a position where she is sitting on the edge of the table with him standing in front of her, or if the table is sturdy then both climb aboard for some missionary action! You will never look at each other the same over dinner ever again!
Washing machines and dryers provide an excellent accessory for sex. The woman should sit on top of the machine, ensuring it is switched on to the max setting. She can enjoy the sensations as her partner thrusts into her from in-front, while at the same time experiencing a heightened sensation caused by the vibrations of the washing machine.
Next time you and your partner are on a road trip, take yourself back to those naughty teenage years, and stop the car on a quiet country road with minimum traffic. Push back the front seats and climb on top of your partner in the driving seat for some sitting down sex, or both climb over into the back seats where there will be more room to try out different positions.
The perfect place for the ultimate quickie – and we’re talking pretty quick here! The best elevator to try this in is one in an office building or parking lot elevator, either early morning or later in the evening when less people are around. Hit the emergency stop button when you are in between floors, which will buy you a few minutes to do the deed before the lift starts again, or before the fire department comes to rescue you out!
Camping isn't for everyone – people either love it or hate it. However, one way to make it way more interesting is to spice things up in the tent with your partner. Snuggle up in between the sleeping bags and get intimate with the sounds of nature all around you. Create more adventure to your night by adding a sex toy, and create some magical memories.
The great thing about having sex in the sea is that you can be on a crowded beach and because of the darkness of the water, no-one will even know what you are up to. Slip your bikini to one side and begin the fun – all people around you will see is your top half so they will have no idea what is going on below sea level!
The silence of the waters and the movement of the waves can be pretty big turn ons, so next time you take a boat trip, make sure to get all aboard you partner and make the most of the ride. Regardless of whether you are on a ferry, a private yacht or a rubber dinghy, the experience is sure to give you both a thrill as you explore each other’s oceans.
Turn a country walk into an outdoor sex session, guaranteeing big thrills for you both. Choose a vast woodland or forest with lots of greenery, where you can take shelter to strip off and get down to business. Cut-off tree stumps are a great height for doggie style sex, or pick a sturdy tree for some standing up fun.
Performed best in a large high street store with multiple changing rooms, wait until the attendant has left her post and sneak your partner in with you. Choose a cubicle towards the back of the store and make the most of the background music, while you lose yourselves in the heat of passion. After you are done, leave the changing room separately so one partner can distract the store advisor, while the other one makes a discreet exit!
]]>One way to get a fuller feeling during sex with your partner is to opt for sexual positions, which allow for deeper penetration. Try these five sex positions for deep penetration to help maximize your partner’s penis length to help hit that all-important G-spot and help you finish!
This is a modified version of the missionary position, so the trick is to start in missionary, with the man on top. However, once he is inside, raise your legs up one at a time, so that they are resting on the man’s shoulders. This creates a new angle for the man to penetrate, which should result in a much deeper sensation for you. It might be helpful to use some lubrication the first few times to help with the new angle.
A favorite for many couples, this position involves you getting on all fours in a tabletop position, with your legs spread apart. The man then kneels close behind as he enters you, making sure to hold your waist to provide extra support for you both. The right angle of your body allows for intimate penetration, and the freeness of the man’s hands means that he can also use a vibrator at the same time to stimulate your clitoris, should you want it.
A reversed version of The Cowgirl, sees the man lying flat with you on top of him. Instead of facing forward, you should switch around so that you are facing toward his legs before you straddle him. The man’s penis, therefore, is pointed towards the back of your vagina, allowing for maximum penetration all the way from the base of his penis. This allows you to control the speed and depth of movement while giving you maximum domination.
The Lap Dance is best performed on a high-backed chair – either an office chair or kitchen chair would be perfect. The man should sit down with his legs slightly apart, while you straddle him slowly lowering yourself down onto his erection while controlling the thrusts from above. If you’re flexible, you can opt for a modified version, which has you raising your legs over your partner’s shoulders – allowing for a supercharged thrust and maximum vaginal stimulation. However, this should only be performed if you feel your partner (and chair) is strong enough to support your full body weight.
The bridge is a great yoga position aimed at strengthening the pelvic floor and a great sex position, allowing for the perfect G-spot stimulation. The trick is to start in a missionary position with the woman’s legs narrower than usual, at either side of her partner’s legs.
Once inside, you should squeeze your butt together and lift your hips off the bed so that your hips are raised up high. This will help the man to thrust closer and deeper, bringing your two bodies together and working in a perfect orgasm-reaching rhythm.
Experience the thrill of deeper penetration with one (or all five!) of these positions. Spice up your sex life and edge closer to climax with these exciting positions for deep penetration. Stay safe and protected with Durex® condoms on your pleasure journey. Get ready for a wild ride!
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]]>As a student living in the halls, it may be a struggle to find inventive ways to be intimate with your partner. From small bed to college friends coming in and out of your room, there may be not enough space to truly be intimate with your partner. For those nights that you are struggling to find creative ways to be intimate in a twin-sized bed, here are 5 positions to help you get busy.
Tight on space, have no fear. Get your partner to sit on the bed with his legs outstretched as you climb on top of him. As you get comfortable, have him pull you close by hitching his legs in, while you wrap your legs around his waist. As you both find a rhythm that works, make sure to wrap your arms around his neck for extra support. Not only is this an intimate position but it’s great for kissing and gives you and your partner the ability to control your depth.
Suited for those who don’t have a lot of space or time; start by resting the top of your back to the wall as support, while you lean your hip forward. Have your partner stand in front of you and lift your lower half up as you wrap your legs around your partner’s waist. As he enters you, use your arms to wrap around his neck to help keep your balance. Not only can both of you alter the speed and depth of penetration but it’s perfect for maximizing friction against your G-spot to bring you to a sensual climax.
Despite the small space, this position is great for either the bed or any flat surface. Begin by having your partner lay flat with his legs stretched in front of him as you climb on top of him. Whether you want to rock back and forth, or want to give your thighs a bit of a workout by moving up and down, this is a great position to control the angle and depth of penetration. With your partner’s free hands, have him massage your breasts, or further stimulate your clitoris with his fingers or a sex toy to bring you to the ultimate climax.
Using a chair for sex can be fun and can provide great support if done correctly. Depending on where it’s located, it can be a huge turn-on for both of you if done in places where you could be caught by unsuspecting eyes! Whether you’re in the halls or in the library, find a chair that has a back and is not too bulky as to allow you to get into position easier. Your partner should be seated, facing forward as you straddle him with your legs on either side of the chair. Ideally, your feet should touch the ground to give you the leverage you need to move up and down. Depending on the pace you and your partner go, you can receive maximum penetration as you hold onto his shoulders for support.
]]>So it’s your first time? Emotions will be running high, sexual tension will be fully charged and the perfectly natural what-if-I-get-it-wrong self-doubts will be flooding to the front of your mind. Yes, first time sex really is a big deal, mentally and physically; but it doesn’t need to live up to the ‘quick and awkward’ or even ‘painful’ rep it’s been given over time. Learn how to ace beginner sex with our top 5 sex positions to help first time sex experience a whole lot sexier.
Although admittedly sometimes seen as the tamest of them all, the missionary position has huge appeal for many couples and is most definitely a great place to start. With the woman lying on her back and the man on top, resting his weight on his elbows, it is generally the easiest position for first timers as entry is the most natural this way. With you both being face to face, you can feel completely connected and intimate, with lots of eye contact and opportunities for kissing. Lubrication is important to ensure that penetration is not painful, therefore you might like to try some extra lube for your first few times in The Missionary.
For many women this is a great first time position as it allows her to stay in control of the speed and depth of penetration – meaning she can find out what suits her, at her own pace. It’s also thought to be the position most likely for her to achieve the ‘Big O’ as she is taking care of it herself. Plus, it’s always a winner for the guys too – they get to lie back and enjoy the view!
This is another straightforward move physically, and not a million miles away from the missionary. The woman rests on her back at the edge of the bed with her legs hanging off, while the man steps back from the bed and places his body between her legs. The woman’s pelvis is raised much higher with this move than in the missionary position and penetration could feel a lot deeper. It can be a very relaxing position for women because they can lie back while their partner does most of the work. (Sorry boys).
In this position, the woman lies on her stomach with one or two pillows under her pelvis while her partner lies on top of her, mimicking her position and entering from behind. This position is much slower and rhythmic, with circular motions rather than the usual faster, thrusting movements. It is good for beginners as it allows you to experience the sensation of sex without deep cervical penetration which can be uncomfortable for some women during their first few times.
This is a great first time sex position, especially for those who are especially shy or nervous. The woman should lay on her side and her partner lie behind her, entering her from behind. It can also be an extremely intimate and romantic position, with your partner holding you the whole time, and allows for a lot of interaction and touching of the important female erogenous zones. First time sex is a hugely psychological experience and feeling relaxed and connected helps remove many of the anxieties which can undermine sexual arousal.
Whichever position you go with, remember no one is born a sex god – it’s only by trying different positions that you will find out what works for you and your partner. The most important thing is to enjoy it and feel relaxed throughout.
]]>When it comes to intimacy with your partner, bigger is not always better. There are certain sex positions that will leave your partner craving more whatever your penis size is. Regardless of what you’re working with, here are the best sex positions to try for maximum pleasure.
Begin with your partner on all fours with her knees at the edge of the bed, while you stand behind her with your feet hip width apart. As you position yourself in your partner, make sure to have her keep her knees close together. Not only will this narrow her vaginal canal but it will make her feel much snugger as you thrust into her; giving her the ultimate G-spot stimulation. Add another wave of pleasure by reaching over and stroking her clitoris, the sensation from your member and hands makes for the perfect sexual experience.
Give her the power to take control for a wave of unstoppable pleasure. Start by laying on the bed flat as she mounts you. Once securely inside of her, have her move up and down using her leg muscles to build momentum. Help maintain her balance by placing your hands on her waist as she finds a pace that works for her. By leaning forward, she can play with her movements by grating back and forth or in circles.Not only will those moves help vary the speed and depth of penetration, it allows your member to stimulate her G-Spot. Remember that not only will she be in control of her own pleasure, but this position offers you some amazing benefits as well. For a great view of her chest and access to her clitoris, take things to a new level with a sensual pleasure set to give you and your partner a night you won’t forget.
If you’re penis is smaller than 6 inches or has a bend to it, this position is great for offering your partner a deeper penetration. To begin this sultry position, have your partner lie down on her side facing you as you lay on your side with one leg bent facing perpendicular to her. Have her raise her legs in a slight 90-degree angle as you enter her slowly.
Once inside, slip your lower leg underneath her and hold her bent leg for additional support and penetration. This position is not only great for giving you and your partner the ultimate degree of eye contact, but it allows you to increase intimacy with unlimited body-to-body contact.
With a revamped style to the classic missionary position, show your partner a night they won’t forget with this ultra-sensual and intimate sex position. Start off with both of you in missionary style with her legs bent at a slight angle and feet on your hips. This shortens the vaginal canal giving you access to deeper penetration that the both of you would enjoy.
Adding to the sensation and excitement, the friction from your bodies rubbing together will provide for the ultimate clitoral stimulation; giving you and your partner the ultimate win-win situation. For further pleasure, add a sex toy for the perfect combination of pleasure and adventure.
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It’s a pretty widely accepted truth that women can take much longer to reach orgasm than men. In fact, some studies have suggested that the average man can climax in 5 minutes while it can take the average woman up to 20 minutes, or longer. However, there are some strategic positions to keep him going for longer. Here are just some of the best positions to try with your partner.
This can be a very romantic position – you are face to face so it’s perfect for lots of kissing and eye contact, which creates much more intimacy. In this position, your partner sits on the bed cross-legged while you lower yourself onto his lap, wrapping your arms and legs around his neck and back. While there can be deep penetration, the movement itself has to stay at a calm and steady tempo which is ideal for stopping him getting overly excited and rushing things. If you think he might climax soon, slow things right down and that may be able to delay him for some time.
In this position your partner should lie on his side facing you. You then lie on your back at 90 degrees to him, draping your legs over his hips. This position delays arousal because he is unable to move as easily as he is in other positions – he is only really able to move backwards and forwards while holding on to your thighs. As before, having limited motion means he can’t get too carried away and climax too quickly.
Many men find that they are better able to control themselves and last longer in this position. Here the man and woman both lie on their sides, facing the same direction and close together. The man’s pelvis is slightly lower than the woman’s, while she bends forward slightly from the hip, lifting her leg slightly to let him enter her. It has a far gentler pace and shallower penetration – it’s more of a grinding action rather than thrusting – so again, he can’t get too excited too soon. This is also an intimate position, and perfect if you are both feeling tired – great for slow, lazy Sunday morning sex!
This position, also known simply as girl on top, is where the man lies on his back and the woman is on top looking towards him. This is another good option to keep things going much longer. The woman is in charge of the pace and penetration so she can keep things slow and steady and in sync with her. For the man, there is much less thrusting involved and, even where there is, upward thrusting causes far less sensitivity to the penis, meaning the final climax will take much longer.
Ok, so not technically a ‘position’, however the importance of good foreplay is crucial in making him last much longer. Successful foreplay before having sex makes it much harder for a man to climax quickly – essentially it means you can have sex without the “loaded gun”. This way, your partner’s arousal can be built up again gradually, but at a pace that is much more in line with yours. For a pleasurable night, add a pleasure set toy our lovemaking and enjoy a thrilling night.
So the moral of the story is this: when it comes to long-lasting sex, slow and steady wins the race every time!
]]>Whether you and your partner are position-pros working your way through the Karma Sutra or creatures of comfort (preferring to keep things consistent in the bedroom), there are some positions that every couple needs to try at least once. From the sensual classics to the body-defying moves, welcome to our official bucket list of sex positions that every couple should try in their relationship:
This is one of the most popular positions and for very good reasons. The woman knees on all fours with legs parted, while her partner kneels directly behind her and enters from behind. Men enjoy this position as they feel in control and primal, while women benefit from the intensity of the position and direct G-spot stimulation. Women can also easily use one hand to stimulate their own clitoris in this position with or without a sex toy as an aid.
This position requires the use of a chair. Whether you choose an armchair, dining chair or office chair, anything that can support both you and your partner will suffice. Have the man sit on the chair while the woman straddles him and takes control. This position can be even sexier if both partners leave their clothes on, making it feel more spontaneous and naughty! This is a great one for women who want to try out being more dominant during sex; as they are in full control of the angle, depth and speed of each movement. The man is also in a great position to explore his partners’ body. With two free hands he can massage her breasts or hold on to her butt as she thrusts, for a pleasurable sensation.
Having sex standing up is extremely passionate and because of this, both partners usually find it easy to climax quickly – hence the name. The woman stands with her back to the wall and the man stands in front of her. It helps if there is a table or stool nearby that she can rest one leg on as penetration is easier when her legs are slightly parted. The man should soften his knees for added support and take control of the thrusting. This is a great position for spontaneous sex when you both get in from work or for when you are out and fancy a secret quickie!
A variation on the traditional missionary position, The Bridge requires a bit more flexibility from the woman but with well-worthy results! From the missionary position, the man should sit up so that he’s sitting on his ankles while the woman stays on her back with her feet flat on the floor with her hips raised towards the ceiling into a low bridge position. This will allow him to enter her in a perfect position. The new angle of penetration can create intense stimulation for her, plus it has the added benefit of toning her thighs and buttocks at the same time. Win-win!
This is another position, where the woman is in the dominant role and can really take control. The man lies on his back with legs together, while she kneels over and then lowers herself down onto him. Some of the weight can be taken off her, by either leaning back slightly towards his thighs or leaning forward and using her arms for support. As the woman is in control, she can help to delay his climax by speeding up or slowing down accordingly and can also increase the intensity of her own orgasm at the same time.
]]>When it comes to achieving a mind-blowing orgasm, simplicity is often the key. In this version of the missionary position, the woman puts a couple of pillows or cushions underneath her bottom so that her hips are raised up. This allows for deeper penetration and also the positioning of the groin makes it easier for her clitoris to be stimulated by her partner as he enters her. Many women favor a missionary-style position as they feel especially turned on with their man’s weight on them.
This is a favorite position for a quickie and a great way to surprise her when she gets home from work. She should have the top of her back to the wall, resting on it for support, while leaning her hips forward and wrapping one leg around her partner to allow him to enter her (she may need to change legs every now and again). Both partners can alter the speed or depth of penetration and with her hips forward and in an upright position, this should maximize friction against her G-spot to hopefully bring her closer to orgasm.
Using a chair for sex can be a great prop and as well as the support it gives, it can also be a huge turn-on depending on where it is located and with the risk of being caught by unsuspecting eyes! Whether you are at home or in the office, find a chair that has a back and is not too bulky as to allow you to get into position easier. The man should be seated, facing forward and she should straddle him, with legs either side of the chair. Ideally her feet should touch the ground to give her leverage to push up and down at her own pace – this way she can receive maximum penetration as she rocks her hips forward and holds onto his shoulders for support.
]]>Summer is slowly approaching and it’s time to get creative in the bedroom. With these 4 creative sex positions it’s all about being adventurous and trying something new; so ditch the missionary position this month and start experimenting.
It’s time to move out of the bedroom and head to somewhere a little more offbeat. The laundry room doesn’t seem like the most romantic room in the house, but for this position you will be using the help of your washing machine or tumble dryer to send you to orgasm heaven.
Switch on the machine, have her sit on the edge of it with her feet resting on the side for support and have her knees open towards you. Stand between her knees and move her body forward as you enter her. Depending on how tall you are, she might have to move further towards you). With her free hands free to roam your body, make sure to caress her breasts or stroke her thighs for added pleasure. Because of the angle, this position allows for especially deep penetration, and if this isn’t enough, the vibrations from the tumble dryer against your lower body should send you into a sensual spin.
As well as being lots of fun to try out with your partner, this position is great for improving your fitness levels while testing your balance and toning your thighs. Begin by having your partner kneel on the floor (depending on the surface, you might want to lay a towel or rug down to avoid carpet burn). You should face away from her while she straddles over your legs and lowers herself onto you as you enter her from behind.
As she squats over you using her thigh muscles, alternate between a slow, steady and then speed things up when you both get a burst of energy. It might be helpful to use a lubricant with this position to allow for less friction as you move together. Added advantages of this position are that you get a spectacular view of her behind as you work your magic, and you also get a cheeky thrill of not seeing each others faces.
For this position you will need an armless chair and a bit of confidence! Start seated on the chair as she moves closer towards you. You might want to be naked already or add in a strip tease to add even more sexiness. Once naked (or perhaps wearing just your sexy underwear) have her straddle you as she lowers her body onto yours. Remember in this position, she is completely in control as you sit back comfortably as she gives the show of your life!
This position is great as both of you are able to set the pace and be as creative as you want with your moves. If she has long hair, a few head rolls and flicks of her hair onto your body are guaranteed to drive you wild. Remember, you could always add a no kissing rule, which will create a strong sexual tension and further add to the ‘stripper’ act.
You don’t have to be a yoga guru to perfect this position, but a degree of flexibility will definitely help. Begin by having her lie on her back as you kneel down in front of her. Have her wrap her legs around your waist as she lifts her bottom off the ground to allow you to enter her. You should support her lower back with your hands while you roll up your spine as you stand shoulder width apart. With the angle of your pelvis in this position, it should be perfect for hitting her G-spot and guaranteeing a great orgasm for the both of you. For an even more satisfying night, add a pleasure set to indulge in a night of endless pleasure.
]]>If oral sex is a favorite of your partner then why not surprise him with some unexpected new techniques that will leave him wanting more. Read our 5 top tips and give him the blowjob of his dreams!
There is something about being dominated that men find a huge turn on, especially when it comes to oral sex. Why not catch your man off-guard and seduce him the moment he walks in the door from work. You don’t even have to make it past the hallway; start by kissing his lips and then move your lips down his body until you reach his pants and then slowly remove them while he is still standing. Oral sex while standing can be thrilling and your partner is bound to go wild at the element of surprise and you being in control.
There is something about being dominated that men find a huge turn on, especially when it comes to oral sex.
Dryness during sex can be uncomfortable for both partners and the same is true during oral sex. Although saliva acts as a natural lubricant, it also dries up very quickly and often after a short period of time the mouth can become dry and chalky. Introducing a lube can help solve this and makes the experience more pleasurable for the giver as well as the receiver. There are many flavored lubricants available, so you can experiment and find a taste that works for you.
If your partner’s penis is on the large side you may find it difficult to use just your mouth alone during oral sex. Using your hand and your mouth simultaneously can be a useful technique, allowing you to give him pleasure down the full length of his shaft. Using a lubricant can also be great for this purpose as it will allow your hand to slide effortlessly up and down the lower end of his penis, while you concentrate your lips around the top part. You can also use your second hand to explore other parts of your man’s body, gently caressing his scrotum, squeezing his bottom to draw him closer to you or stroking a finger around his anus to heighten the sensitivity.
Blowjobs and oral sex should be playful so if you want to add some fun try introducing some props for added excitement and stimulation. Experimenting with different temperatures and sensations can be enjoyable, so try taking a mouthful of warm hot chocolate, swirling it around your mouth and then continue with oral sex allowing the liquid to circulate around your man’s penis.
Follow this immediately with an ice cube, using your tongue to push the cold object around the penis and then from the base to the tip. The difference in temperature from warm to cold will feel amazing for your partner. You can also try out fizzy champagne, ice cream, popping candy or smooth melted chocolate for some other sexy sensations.
One thing that should really heighten the oral-sex-adventure for your partner is showing him that you are getting really turned on by the whole experience. Many people think of oral sex as being a one-sided act, but show your man just how much you are enjoying yourself with your body language and sounds you make.
Try soft moaning while you take him into your mouth or stop occasionally for a sexy gasp and to tell him how amazing his penis is. Turn him on even more by using your hands to explore your own body, while pleasuring him with your mouth. You could even use an intimate massager to stimulate yourself at the same time, resulting in a mutual climax moment.
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Deciding to introduce a sex toy into your relationship can bring added enjoyment as well as plenty of sensual and intimate sessions for you both. However, deciding the right sex toy may not be as easy as you think. So whether you want to start off small, or you fancy trying something a bit more daring; here is our ultimate guide on choosing the perfect sex toy as a couple.
If you and you partner are totally new to sex toys, a small external sex toy, like a massager can be very useful in helping you figure out what kind of vibrator suits you best. Great for clitoral stimulation or an erotic massage, add one to your lovemaking session for an incredible sensation time and time again.
Feeling a bit more confident and want to venture onto something a bit more adventurous? Add a vibrating cock ring to your sessions for combined pleasure that you both can feel. Designed in a range of styles and colours, a cock ring helps restrict the blood flow out of the penis to keep it harder for a longer time. Not only does extend your love making session, the added clitoral stimulation your partner feels during intercourse offers an arousing sensation for the both of you.For intermediates
So you’re already knowledgeable about sex toys but looking to trying something with a bit of a flair? A bullet vibrator is a great choice to start off your night. Whether you want one with various speed levels or looking for different sensual pulse patterns, this is the perfect sex toy to give you and your partner the perfect combination of adventurous foreplay.
]]>Have your partner start in the doggy position. As she kneels in front of you, enter her from behind. Once inside, have her grab onto your ankles as you slowly lift to stand, supporting her on your slightly bent lap. For a naughty twist, add Durex Play O lube and squeeze your pelvic muscles in time with their thrusts for an ultimate night of passion.
Looking for the optimal g-spot stimulation? This position leaves her in control while you relax and enjoy the stimulation. This position is a little tricky but it’s a great way of working through the kinks together. Begin by entering your partner from behind as you fold forward touching the floor. Have her grab onto your ankles as she raises her legs to your side. If you can’t hold that position any longer, get back into missionary and add a rabbit vibrator for the ultimate sensual experience.
Quench your lusty desires with this sultry position and delve into a new world of pleasure. All that is required from you and your partner, is decent upper body strength and low inhibitions. Begin by facing each other, then grab her waist and under her butt as you lift her towards you. Let her wrap her arms behind your neck and her legs around your waist for additional support as you begin to move at a rhythmic pace.
In this classic position, have her get down on all fours while your penetrate her from behind. Not only does rear entry create the perfect amount of friction for the both of you, it is ideal for those who want to feel a deeper more pleasurable sensation.Edge of Love
Take control with this revamped version of the classic cowgirl. Lay back over the edge of the bed while she straddles over you stretching her hands towards your feet. As you enjoy the sultry view, add a sex toy to your love making for a memorable night you won’t forget.
If you’re looking for a smooth transition outside of your comfort zone, then this position is perfect for you. While you’re on top of her, have her draw her thighs into your chest and place her legs over her shoulders. This position allows you to bring her pelvis off the mattress, gaining leverage and support using her thighs. The tilt of her hips will allow you to penetrate her deeper, while giving your partner explicit access to your g-spot.
Who says you and your partner have to limit your sexual trysts to just the bed? Lay on the couch as she sits down on top of you facing away. Lean back until you’re propped up on your elbows with your back is on her chest. Have her lean back and keep her knees bent towards her chest as you penetrate her. Not only will she appreciate the hug, but she’ll enjoy the climax. Turn up the heat with Durex Night In pleasure set and tease and delight your partner all night long.
Begin by sitting on the edge of the bed with your feet planted on the ground. Have her squat over you on the edge of the bed with her back to you like a little frog. Grab her waist and help her move up and down, bracing herself on your thighs as you penetrate her. She will be able to support her movements with you placing your hands under her butt, giving her an extra lift.
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Having time apart from your partner doesn’t have to be as tough or challenging then it needs to be. Use the free time to discover what your inner desires are, what turns you on and how your time together with your partner can be more intimate. Time away from your partner gives you the opportunity to acknowledge your sexual needs, giving you and your partner an increased feeling of contentment, relaxation and satisfaction.
Hearing your partner moan in sheer pleasure over your words is the perfect way to make a carnal connection when you both are apart. Whether it’s time away for work keeping you apart or hundreds of miles; phone sex is a great way to learn, experiment and tease your partner afar. Decide a time that works well for the both of you, and ensure to create an atmosphere that will have you both feeling relaxed and less inhibited.
With mobile apps such as Skype, Google Hangout and Snapchat on the rise as the latest means of communication, you and your partner can feel even closer than ever before. Why not partake in a steamy video session to ignite your partner’s imagination, or surprise your partner with a sensual shot of cleavage or lacy lingerie and enjoy the creativity and excitement that each picture brings. Make sure to keep the fun going with scheduled video date nights and saucy photos.
Being physically intimate with your partner can be a bit of a challenge; however, staying physically connected doesn’t have to be. There are a selection of male and female sex toys that you and your partner can use apart to leave you both sexually satisfied until you meet again. Whether you decide to use a rabbit vibrator and he a cock ring, make sure to use lube to prevent discomfort and create a pleasurable experience for both of you.
Being physically intimate with your partner can be a bit of a challenge; however, staying physically connected doesn’t have to be.
A long distance relationship is a great way to connect emotionally with your partner. With the daily stresses of life and the impact of being apart, time away from one another can be a great opportunity for you and your partner to learn more about one another, share every day experiences while creating opportunities that the two of you will enjoy once you are together. Bonding with your partner is a great way to reaffirm your commitment to one another making your time apart more useful and sentimental.
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Here we look at how to make oral sex better so that you can both enjoy the experience together.
Generally speaking, it can take much longer for a woman to climax during oral sex than it can during penetrative sex. Therefore before you start, make sure that you are both in a comfortable position which you feel relaxed in. Pillows, cushions, and duvets arranged around her body can all help make the experience more relaxing, allowing you the opportunity to experiment with different angles and props to see what works for you.
Both men and women are guilty of concentrating too much on the end goal (the orgasm) than actually enjoying the journey to it, which sometimes can spoil the act completely. Women can often be worried about the length of time it is taking them to climax and hence get nervous that their partner is getting bored.
Whilst men worry that their partner is not climaxing because they are not enjoying what he is doing, despite her enjoying every minute of it. The important thing is to concentrate on relaxing and enjoying the intimate closeness even if she or you don’t climax at all.
During oral sex on a woman the full attention is on her, meaning that her partner’s whole mission is to pleasure her and ensure that she enjoys every minute. For this reason, it is important that she gives him vocal cues on the bits she is enjoying the most so that he knows where to concentrate his efforts. He should also pay attention to her body language, her breathing, and how her hips are positioned, which could all give clues as to how much she is enjoying it.
If her hips are rotating in a circular motion or lifting off from the bed then chances are she is hugely turned on and getting lots of pleasure. However, if her legs are squeezing together and her bottom is pushing down tightly to the bed, it might be a sign that something is not comfortable and therefore a cue to try something different.
Introduce temperature play to elevate the sensations during oral sex. Experiment with contrasting temperatures by sipping on warm or cold beverages beforehand and then incorporating gentle oral touches. The contrast of warmth or coolness can add an exciting element of surprise and heightened pleasure for both partners. Remember to communicate and gauge your partner's comfort levels throughout the experience.
Although the man’s mouth and tongue are the main pleasure-givers during oral sex, there are no rules that say he can’t have a little bit of help along the way. Vibrators and intimate massagers can make the experience much more fun and enjoyable for both parties. He could use the toy to stimulate her clitoris, whilst he explores the other areas of her vagina, and then swap over so that the vibrator is inside her, whilst he pays attention to her clitoris.
When engaging in oral sex, it's important to keep these basic tips in mind to enhance pleasure and create a more satisfying experience for both partners:
Openly discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences with your partner. Everyone is different, so understanding each other's likes and dislikes is crucial for a pleasurable experience.
Oral sex is not a race. Slow, sensual movements and gentle exploration can build anticipation and intensify pleasure. Pay attention to your partner's reactions and adjust your techniques accordingly.
Incorporate your hands into the experience. Gently caress and explore other erogenous zones, such as the breasts, inner thighs, or buttocks, to enhance overall pleasure.
Vary your techniques to keep things interesting. Experiment with a combination of licking, sucking, gentle nibbling, and using different pressures to find what feels best for your partner.
The clitoris is highly sensitive and often the key to orgasm for many women. Focus on this area with gentle, circular motions, or try different patterns and speeds to discover what brings your partner the most pleasure.
Make sure both you and your partner maintain proper oral hygiene. Additionally, it's crucial to keep your genital area clean by bathing regularly or using unscented wipes before and after oral sex.
To protect against the transmission of STDs, consider using condoms or dental dams. Flavored condoms, like Durex® Tropical, can even add some added flavor to your oral sex experience!
Remember, every individual has unique preferences, so communication, experimentation, and mutual respect are key. By focusing on your partner's pleasure and staying attuned to their responses, you can create a more enjoyable and intimate oral sex experience
Enhancing the experience of oral sex can bring greater pleasure and intimacy to both partners. In this blog post, we explored five practical ways to make oral sex feel better as well as other general oral sex tips. By incorporating these tips into your oral sex repertoire, you can create a more fulfilling and pleasurable experience for both you and your partner.
Healthline, 2023, Everything You Need to Know About Oral Sex.
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Don’t want all the attention focused on you? No problem. This position allows you and your partner to embrace each other without all the hassle. Have her begin on the bed and lie on her back as you climb on top of her. As you both move to your own pace, create the perfect thrilling sensations. For an even stronger sensation, have you and your partner change the angles of your legs while maintaining a deep connection with extended eye contact.
Create more intimacy with your partner in this cosy position. Have both of you lie on your sides, facing the same direction. Bring your knees up slightly as your partner slides up behind you and enters you from behind. For the ultimate heightened sensation, try Durex Play Tingling lube and enjoy the skin-to-skin contact and increased stimulation you’ll both crave.Reverse Spoon
Experience the added benefit of gazing into your partners eyes with the full-body connection you desire. Similar to ‘Side by Side’, have your partner lay on her side with her knees bent and folded in towards her chest. Then lay on your side behind her, but in a position where your feet are now behind her head. As you enters her, maintain eye contact for an enhanced sensation.
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It’s difficult to feel sexy if you’re distracted while on the phone with your partner; so dim your lights, lower your voice and change into pretty lingerie to get the mood going. To spice up your conversation, try the Durex Ultimate Thrill rabbit vibrator for maximum clitoral stimulation when you need it. Not only are they powerful enough to leave you satisfied when alone, it’s the closest you’re ever going to get to the real thing on those cold nights apart.Intimate Massager
Even if you’re the greatest masturbation aficionado, an intimate massager is a great way to touch yourself while your partner is away. Designed to fit into the palm of your hand, Durex’s Sensual Bliss massager can be used all over your body for an erotic massage or for the ultimate clitoral stimulation. So turn off all the lights, lay back and enjoy the sensations.
Phone sex shouldn’t be rushed. Just like you need foreplay to enjoy passionate sex, you need to be patient and set up the right mood. Durex Exciting Touch stroke vibrator is perfect for making your night a lot sexier and naughtier. It’s curved shapes teases the clitoris for maximum stimulation while providing three pulse patters to give you a breathtaking orgasm.
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Finding your perfect condom size leads to safer and more pleasurable sex for both of you. There really is a condom out there for everyone; you just have to find it.
According to the NHS, for adults, the average penis size is about 14-16cm (5.5-6.3 inches) when erect. The average girth for an erect penis is 12-13cm (4.7-5.1 inches). The majority of Durex condoms are designed to accommodate all sizes of penis and will stretch to fit different lengths, leaving a little extra length at the tip to allow room to ejaculate. However there are certain condoms that are best for particulalry large or small penises.
If you feel that your condom always slips off or feels baggy, perhaps you should have a look at a narrower option such as the Durex Ultra Thin Feel, which has a nominal width of 52mm, as opposed to 56mm – the width of many Durex condoms. Durex Ultra Thin Feel condoms are super fine with Sensi-Fit which provides a sleeker fit for even greater feeling, and on average are 20% thinner than the standard latex condoms, helping to enhance sensitivity and arousal, and ultimately helping the condom to feel more snug.
Perhaps you feel that every condom you try always feels too tight. If this is the case you should try the Durex Real Feel, which is made from a stretchy non-latex material, and has a nominal width of 56mm. Or you could try a Durex Comfort XL. These are extra large condoms that are comfortable and can better accommodate those of you who need it. It sounds obvious, but it is really important to use a condom that is not too small, because if you do and it is too short, the risk of STI transmission increases.
You also need to consider the thickness of condoms and the choices you have. If you have a thinner penis maybe you should try Durex Extra Safe condoms which are slightly thicker and could add a little extra help in the girth department, and extra peace of mind too. Vice Versa, if you have a thicker penis why not try a thinner condom like the Durex Thin Feel. Despite being thinner, they still provide the same high level of reassurance and protection, and they’re shaped to be easier to put on and provide a sleek fit and feeling during sex – an all round winner.
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The perfect way to get you both in the mood, an erotic massage is a great form of foreplay and can help build and prolong pleasure to make climax even more enjoyable when it comes.
Follow our tips to give your partner the ultimate sensual massage that will leave them begging you for more.
Before you even start thinking about limbering up your hands for a massage you need to set the tone.
Choose a comfortable location – the bed or sofa – and take the time to clean it of any distractions or reminders of household chores (such as dirty plates or piles of washing). Dim the lights, if you have a dimmer switch, and light a few strategic candles, making sure that they are placed safely and won’t pose a fire hazard.
Sprinkle rose petals across the floor and bed or sofa and put on some soft, soothing music that will allow your partner to truly relax and thus heighten their senses.
Next, you need to make sure you have everything you need to give a good massage. Take the time to stretch and loosen your own joints by slowing working your hands. This will help to prevent the risk of developing cramp mid-massage and disappointing your partner by stopping.
You also need to invest in some suitable massage oils and other bits of kit to help you do the job. An intimate massager is great for really working those erogenous zones and lavender oils are always good for helping encourage relaxation.
It’s important to check for any allergies before applying these to your partner though – the last thing you want is for their massage to end in a nasty rash, or worse!
With everything prepared, it’s time to start the massage. There are many different areas of the body you can focus on but combining them all together in a single session will provide the ultimate erotic massage.
There are many different areas of the body you can focus on but combining them all together in a single session will provide the ultimate erotic massage.Start with a head massage, rubbing the temples and forehead before working your way slowly down the neck. Move in closely and let your partner feel your breath against their neck – you can even gently massage or nibble their earlobes for added arousal.
Apply a little oil here and work your fingers along their neck and collar bone in long, slow movements that build sexual desire. Tease them by lightly touching just above their chest before moving onto their arms. You’ll come back to the chest later!
Once you’ve finished massaging the arms, it’s time to move to the other end of the body. The feet are one of the most sensitive parts of the body so take your time here and applying gentle but firm pressure while working your way up and down from heel to toe.
Move on from the feet by massage the legs. Work slowly and start at the ankles before moving up the calves, sliding your hand from the outside to the inside as you progress higher.
Once past the knee, gently run your hand up the inside of the thigh – partly your lovers legs slightly as you do. As you reach their groin, switch to the outside again and tease them by gentle caressing or catching their most intimate area every now and again.
By this point, you should both be feeling pretty aroused so it’s up to you how much longer you prolong your pleasure. You can end it her by starting to rub your partner and engage in other acts of foreplay or you can continue the massage a little longer.
Returning to the chest for the sexiest massage of all or getting your partner to roll over and passing their buttocks are both sure-fire ways to leave your lover moaning in ecstasy. The choice is yours.
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