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Spark #1
Use small gestures to get the biggest payoffs

It doesn't always take a grandiose declaration of love to get your message across. Much of the time, it's those little somethings and sweet nothings that help you stay connected and get each other turned on.


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Spark #2
Say more without saying a word

Thinking about flirtatious body language should be fun, romantic, sexy, light-hearted and arousing. How can you let your partner know that you want him or her without saying a word? Find out here.


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Spark #3
Add in an element of surprise

Novelty breeds testosterone, literally, which is essential to a healthy sex life. This is why it's so important to add an element of the unexpected to your relationship. Showing yourself to your partner in an unexpected light creates a burst of energy for both of you.


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Spark #4
Send a love poem the new-fashioned way

It's more than texting. And not quite sexting. Welcome to "flirtexting" - the "sweet nothings" of the digital world. If you're unsure of where to begin, find out the basic dos and don'ts to get you started.


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Spark #5
Excite your partner with spontaneous acts of love

Love is a dynamic emotion, and deserves more than a static reaction. Is your heart bursting? Today's the day to do something about it. Get inspired to act on your feelings with memorable moments in the history of emoting.


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Spark #6
Think outside the flowers

So you both spend a lot of time at the office. That's no reason to drop the intimacy. Get creative and put a smile on their face to warm them up, any time of the day.


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Spark #7
Mix things up with aphrodisiac cocktails

You could mix a few vodka sodas or pop open a couple bottles of beer... like you always do. Or you could really mix it up and plan a date night that involves mixing one or multiple aphrodisiac cocktails and see where the night takes you.


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Spark #8
Turn up the romance before the sun goes down

A lot can happen before the sun goes down, there's no need to limit yourself to date nights. Day dates are just as romantic and contain even more potential for fun, bond-enhancing activities that can lead to more exciting nights.


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Spark #9
Change the tune of your mood music

Anyone can throw together a haphazard collection of songs with the word "love" in them, but your candle-lit dinner deserves better. It takes a true romantic to craft the perfect, harmonious atmosphere that brings you closer so that you can go further.


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Spark #10
Don't skip dessert

You don't have to be a master pastry chef to wow your partner's sweet tooth. Turn down the lights and try some super sexy and simple desserts to set the mood. Don't let us stop you from bringing the ingredients into the bedroom.


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Spark #11
Turn your home into the hottest new place in town

Instead of trying to jump through hoops to get reservations at the swankiest new restaurant and then spend the evening surrounded by strangers, create a new and exciting atmosphere right in the comfort of your own home.


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Spark #12
Recreate your first... date

Nothing fuels romance like a little nostalgia. In fact, romance itself is less of the point - it's more about creating joy, feeling playful, feeling energized - it's these feelings that translate into sexual energy. Recreate your first date to relive the honeymoon phase over and over.


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Spark #13
Heat things up with a sensual massage

Sure, you can turn up the heat in your relationship by forking over a handful of cash for an expensive couple's massage. Or you can take matters into your own hands - literally - and give your partner a sensual massage right in the comfort of your own home.


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Spark #14
Get things started outside of the bedroom

Foreplay isn't limited to what happens in the bedroom. Every interaction with your partner is a chance to get in the mood. Amp things up long before you step foot into the bedroom.


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Spark #15
Use your senses

We definitely don't use our senses as much as we could. You may even be thinking: where do I even start incorporating all my senses in the bedroom? These tips can help you discover feelings you never knew existed.


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Spark #16
Don't forego the foreplay

It's always a good idea to keep things fresh. There are a few key components to remember when it comes to foreplay that some couples tend to forget. Make sure you are continuing to get closer, so you can go further with these steps.


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Spark #17
Turn on more than just a movie

Looking to introduce a little sizzle to your Saturday night? Or Sunday, or Monday, or... you get the picture. Movie night doesn't always have to be a PG-rated affair, if you catch our drift. Some movies were just made to encourage a little real-life lovin'.


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Spark #18
Discover some spicy things you can do with romantic foods

Confused about where to start with your date night dinner menu? Start with a few base ingredients and the various ways you can make them interesting. From whipped cream to chili peppers, find an exciting use for anything.


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Spark #19
Let your fantasies out of the bag

It's not always easy to communicate your most intimate thoughts, but it is worth it to take your relationship to the next level. The more you do it the easier it gets and the more fun there is to be had.


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Spark #20
Do unto your partner what they want

You hear so much about the Golden Rule, you know... "do unto others as you'd like done to you." Did you know there's a higher standard and more valuable rule for your relationship? It's called the Platinum Rule: Do unto your partner, as they want done to them.


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Spark #21
Master the art of seducing and being seduced

Keeping your erotic imagination active is important to keep sex hot in a relationship.  While your partner doesn't change, your approach, attitude and desires around what you want in bed can and certainly will. Follow a few simple steps to identify, share and explore your fantasies together to keep stoking your erotic imagination.


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Spark #22
Discover your partner's hidden hot spots

Every wonder what parts of the body are the most receptive to touch? Get a little more insight into where your partner's feeling it the most, and it may not be where you think. Here's a starting point to get you acquainted with some key areas.


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Spark #23
Sexplore the possibilities

Sexploration is all about indulging your naughty side by acting out your sexual fantasies together and is one the best (and most fun!) ways to inspire intimacy with your partner. It requires trust and openness, of course - plus a healthy dose of adventure.


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Spark #24
Play not-so-nice with your toys

Don't be afraid to ask. It's not as scary as you think. In fact, it can be quite a revelation! Get a grip on some new toys for the bedroom by learning where to start, and how to proceed with this handy infographic.


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