How to Give a Blow Job

Giving great oral that will blow his mind: blow job tips.

How to Give a Blow Job

Very few men will complain about getting a blow job, no matter how unskilled you may think you are, so if you're worried about how to give a blow job don't worry. As long as sharp fingernails, rough skin and teeth are all kept well away from the meat of the matter, you're likely to get a welcome reception. However, there are ways to enhance your technique — and keep it fresh.

First off, remember a good BJ is as much about the hands as the mouth. Keeping everything well lubricated will help, too. Keep a glass of water next to the bed to rehydrate as you go, and invest in flavored lube. Not only will it help your hands glide over him more easily but it will also make oral easier.

"Vary the position to help you reach the parts that make him go 'oh!'"

Oral transmission of STIs including gonorrhea and syphilis is on the increase so use a condom for blow jobs unless you've both been tested. You can always apply it with your mouth to help things flow more sensually. Just pop it in your mouth, with the teat between your lips (don't bite) and the open-end facing outwards. Now, slide your lips onto your lover and use your lips and hands to push the condom down. This can be done so effortlessly that your partner might not even notice.

Speed, depth and motion all make a difference how to give a blow job. Start slowly and gradually get faster, seeing which speed elicits the most favorable response. Porn tends to depict hard, fast blow jobs but a more sensual approach can go down well too. Some men enjoy it if you speed your movements as climax nears. Follow the motions of his hips to help you set the appropriate pace.

Tell your partner not to use his hands on your head (unless you like it, of course). If you set the pace it will be easier to ensure you're comfortable. You can practice fellatio on a (washed) cucumber to get used to the sensation if you're worried about gagging. Lying on the bed with your head over the edge and throat back will make deeper thrusting more comfortable.

And don't forget to let your hands roam. Many men like their balls played with, some enjoy nipple stimulation and others like prostate play. Vary the position to help you reach the parts that make him go "oh!" Use these job tips to keep things lively and don't be afraid to ask about what he likes.